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» Simplicity of Happiness......
Brother Ken
Posted February 9, 2012 by Brother Ken
I read two poems this morning in Roger Housden's "Ten Poems to set you Free".....both dealt with happiness or joy or overflowing emotions that cannot be contained or fully described. The first was so simple, trying to give voice to the joy of the afterglow of becoming one with the one they love. The other was on being overcome with joy and not apologizing for it--IT JUST IS. (I include both poems below).

Is it simply releasing the endorphins through chocolate, sex, and exercise, or is there another explanation of where that euphoria comes from??? It is a great discipline to not get bogged down on life's daily struggle of our own from within and the world from without. I like the statement, as well as the book, 'Happiness Is A Choice!" Really? You'd never think that for so many dragging themselves around simply trying to survive, let alone thrive---and perhaps for a lot of 'good' reasons.

Perhaps a good group topic on this site: "Is happiness a choice???" If so, how do we get more of it? I'm sure there are as many 'answers' to this as there are people, but I like the truth, as the poems convey, that deep happiness flows out of loving another, as we are loved, and in 'catching that perfect prize upon the shelf' as it flutters about, and as we slow ourselves down enough to be overpowered by it.

Joy in the Journey.........Ken.
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THANK YOU, MY FATE
by Anna Swir

Great humility fills me,
great purity fills me,
I make love with my dear
as if I made love dying
as if I made love praying,
tears pour
over my arms and his arms.
I don't know whether this is joy
or sadness, I don't understand
what I feel, I'm crying,
I'm crying, it's humility
as if I were dead,
gratitude, I thank you, my fate,
I'm unworthy, how beautiful
my life.


______________________________

"SO MUCH HAPPINESS"
by Naomi Shihab Nye

It is difficult to know what to do with so much happiness.
With sadness there is something to rub against,
a wound to tend with lotion and cloth.
When the world falls in around you, you have pieces to
pick up,
something to hold in your hands, like ticket stubs
or change.

But happiness floats.
It doesn't need you to hold it down.
It doesn't need anything.
Happiness lands on the roof of the next house, singing,
and disappears when it wants to.
You are happy either way.
Even the fact that you once lived in a peaceful tree house
and now live over a quarry of noise and dust
cannot make you unhappy.
Everything has a life of it's own,
it too could wake up filled with possibilities
of coffee cake and ripe peaches,
and love even the floor which needs to be swept,
the soiled linens and scratched records....

Since there is no place large enough
to contain so much happiness,
you shrug, you raise your hands, and it flows out of you
into everything you touch. You are not responsible.
You take no credit, as the night sky takes no credit
for the moon, but continues to hold it, and share it,
and in that way, be known.
Tags: happiness, joy, happiness is a choice, inexpressible joy, overflowing joy, overflowing love, is a choice, overflowing, inexpressible, love
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Samir Khuller wrote at February 10, 2012
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Is happiness a choice? Well I think it's both a choice and also something that comes natural. You can't choose to be happy because you're forcing yourself to be happy.

Also in my sense happiness comes naturally in small things. A cookie, a video game, a couple of hours to yourself. You eat the cookie, play some COD, and then take a nap waking up to be happy.
Samir Khuller
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Brother Ken wrote at February 11, 2012
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Thanks Samir! It's a 'pregnant' topic of happiness and choosing and such. Yet, can you choose not to be sad? Can I say 'This day, this hour I choose not to be sad?'. I think we'd both agree. Then why can we not do the same with happiness? If we have a thankful heart, counting our blessings, we can choose to remember and feel that and overflow with happiness. Yes, happiness can be a choice.
Brother Ken
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Shayna Abrams wrote at February 9, 2012
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Hey Ken!
Yes, happiness does not come from something other than our own selves. It is our choice. If we have to rely on outer stimulation for our happiness, it is bound to be temporary. Love is a choice. We have to choose to except it as is - no frills....and then we benefit for long term (eternally) because there is nothing else for us to rely on except for what is.
If that makes any sense....
Peace!!
Shayna Abrams
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Brother Ken wrote at February 9, 2012
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Yes.........thanks Shayna......although what's in us may not always be joy and joy from the Creator may be a gift GIVEN to us (GRACE), even placed in us to cultivate.....could the grace of our Creator be that 'outer stimulation' realizing that the kingdom of heaven was within us all along??? It's like we're overlapping in our thoughts and understanding...which is nice too......as they say: IT'S ALLLLL GOOD!!!!

Peace,
Ken
Brother Ken
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Stormie wrote at February 9, 2012
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I particularly like the second poem. I never really have thought about happiness floating out of us like this before.
Stormie
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Brother Ken wrote at February 9, 2012
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THANKS Stormie.....I like your addition, as I did not read the poem as love floating out of us, but I like that....even as it touches us and becomes a part of us, we cannot contain it and it floats out of us as well.......
Brother Ken
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